Wedding Style - My Top 5 Picks for Gowns in a Motion Picture

It's RED CARPET season, and i'm sure everyone knows this (well those that care anyway).

One aspect of this blog that you will see an adequate amount of writing on will be weddings. Yes, I'm one of those women who's quite obsessed with weddings from the engagement to the last dance.

Being a movie buff, or connoisseur if you will I love a good "movie wedding" so I figured i'd play at my own red carpet of weddings past.

Shari Headley in Coming to America 1988 - I CRIED WHEN I SAW HER IN IT

- I was 7 when this movie came out and if you were an Eddie Murphy fan or part of an African American household….you KNEW allllllll about this movie. It is one of the funniest movies EVER!!!!! My husband often times walks around the house reciting many different phrases "ah haaaaaa" (inside joke). BUT….the last scene of this movie, when Prince Hakeem thinks he's about to marry someone his father (King Jaffe Joffer) arranged for him to marry. All of a sudden you see a veiled woman with this stunning bubble gum pink ball gown and a train to rival ALL trains (including Princess Diana's train) and he lifts the veil and it's LISA (the love of his life) ugh what a moment in a movie! Ok so on 2014 this dress might not be "in" but if you take a look at celebrity brides throughout the years (Gwen Stefani, Jessica Biel, and recently Kaley Cucoco) the pink wedding dress trend is very on trend.

Kimberley Williams in Father of the Bride 1991

C'mon what little girl didn't sqee when she saw "Annie" in that beautiful white (diamond white at that) wedding gown. It was one of the most EPIC wedding movie moments in history

Jennifer Lopez in Monster in Law 2005

If you didn't wish you were "Charlie" in this movie when you saw her in this gown. It was simple and so elegant. Her hair was pulled into the perfect chignon accented with a beautiful flower. She definitely was prepared to make a statement in front of her mother in law's elite friends and family. 

Anne Hathaway & Kate Hudson in Bride Wars 2010

What I love about the dresses in this movie was that the fashion stylists really paid attention to the characters that these women were playing in the movie. In the movie Anne wore "her mother's dress"which turned out to be a dress by the amazing Amsale (I don't believe she was designing gowns in that age but I digress) it was perfect for her. Meanwhile Kate adjusted her body for the wonderful world of Vera Wang in a gown that most little girls dream of but once she gets older the amount of pouf decreases to a sleeker silhouette. 

Thanks for reading…..and YES I will be announcing my Top 5 Wedding dresses TV EDITION

City Slicker Ribs

Happy Monday!!!!

I hope you all had a great weekend. I stayed in and kept it very low key this weekend. Ran some errands with hubby and went to visit a new church with some of my girlfriends.

I'm really curious to know why I keep on posting about food on this blog. Every time I make a meal I'm anxious to get onto Blogger to share it with you all (you know…those that actually ready my posts).

A few weeks back my husband asked me "Why don't you ever make BBQ ribs for dinner"…my response was something along the lines of "well..I really don't know actually". After that conversation, I forgot about it completely until last night I was food shopping and came across a nice meaty pack of country ribs and I decided that tonight would be the night he gets ribs.

But…they couldn't be just any type of rib recipe, it had to be authentic to my brain something that wasn't pulled from another cookbook etc. Somewhere out there, I know there is a Chef, or a Home Cook who has made ribs this exact way and that's fine because great minds think alike.

But…here is my version of my version of slathered, juicy, and tender ribs.

Maple Whisky BBQ Baked Ribs aka City Slicker Ribs
1 pack of country ribs
Lawry's Seasoned Salt this stuff is like the mecca of all southern kitchens
Ground Black Pepper
3-4 twists of Sea Salt
1 hefty sprinkle of raw sugar

BBQ Sauce 
1/2 an onion thinly sliced
1 lemon wedge
1 bottle of a basic BBQ sauce I used K.C. Masterpiece
1/2 c. of Maple Whiskey 
2 tbsp of Maple Syrup
2 tbsp. of  Port Wine
Throw all of this in a small sauce pan, cover with a lid and cook on low for 30 min

Step 1. Season the ribs with sea salt, black pepper and Lawry's Season Salt *
Step 2. Put ribs in a deep dish pan and cover with foil and bake on 350 for 1 hour
Step 3. Pull the ribs out of the oven and turn the temperature up to 365
Step 4. Drain the juice from the pan completely
Step 5. Sprinkle the ribs with the raw sugar and then pour the BBQ sauce on top and make sure you get every inch of those ribs covered in sauce
Step 6. Put them back into the oven for 15-20 min to let it soak up the coating
Step 7. Take them out of the oven and let them cool for about 10min (this also allows the sauce to get sticky which is how I prefer them)

* Season your meat to eyesight. I like to see sprinkles of every seasoning on the meat that's how I judge it. Be careful with the Lawry's though; because we're using sea salt we don't want the ribs over salted

I whipped up homemade mashed potatoes with ricotta cheese and a little bit of steamed kale and onions for our sides. It was probably some of the best ribs i've ever had (besides the ribs my father makes now those are game changers)

Enjoy!!!!!

p.s. some people think I cook "fancy"….this dish is not fancy to me at all. I don't think I cook fancy nor do I think I AM fancy. I cook what I like, that's all. I don't necessarily make these meals just to play in a fantasy life thinking everyone wishes they could eat like me. I have a very versatile palette when it comes to food. I'm not a repeat player, meaning if i'm investing time to turn on a stove, you better believe I want to enjoy it and not feel completely BORED with what's on my plate. No dish is ever the same….EVER. Why? Because I don't follow recipes per se, I go with my gut and hope it turns out good. Experimentation is what I love and adore about the process of cooking/baking. So if you do read my blog and you're intimidated….please don't be. Just because it's plated a certain way doesn't mean it's so hard to make. I like to eat different things and I like it to look pretty on a plate. Plain and simple.

"Pie It Forward"

Happy New Year!!!!!!

So I made a small resolution that I think I can adhere to keeping. I am not going to promise you posts all the time, it'd just be wrong for me to do that. I don't even think I have that much of a following, but I know my time will come when I do.

Until then I'm going to keep sharing.

Anyway….I baked a pie. It was delicious, i loved it. BUT I ate 2 slices, my husband ate 1 bite and the rest I gave it to my co-workers because it was so delicious that I didn't want it to be wasted.

There are really no words because it was THAT Good. I didn't follow a recipe for the filling, but I did use Ree Drummond's Pie Crust recipe because I have yet to come up with a crust recipe of my own. She never fails me EVER!!!!!

But let's rewind, this pie was not planned, because if it had been I would have put more thought into it. I had some apples that were 1 day shy of being tossed into the garbage. I'm trying my best not to be so wasteful so I sliced those babies up and Googled a crust recipe and voila…pie. I did jazz this one up in the end a smidge. I added mini marshmallows into the lattice holes, and then drizzled some chocolate syrup on top. I thought it was add something cool, new and more oozy and … well…it did!!!!!

(Sorry about the shadow, I have to get better at taking photographs of my food)

So I'm going to spare you the dramatics of putting Mrs. Drummond's pie crust recipe here, just click the link above and there you have it.


FILLING
5 apples (I used McIntosh apples)
1/2 c dark brown sugar
3/4c white sugar
Cinnamon
Nutmeg
Vanilla Extract (pure)
1 pinch of salt
1/2 tbsp flour

TOPPING
1 handful or less of mini marshmallows
Chocolate syrup


Step 1. peel and slice the apples, if there are brown spots, take them out and discard and use whatever is good of that apple
Step 2. let them sit in a bowl and sprinkle the lemon juice and mix it through so your apples won't turn
Step 3. this is going to sound like a hot mess, but in a large bowl throw in your apples and gently stir all of the ingredients in slowly making sure every slice has flavor on it
**if you notice I didn't put a measurement for the Cinnamon, Nutmeg or Vanilla extract. It's quite difficult for me because I was taught to cook without measuring, and by eyesight. What I will say is if you shake your cinnamon and nutmeg containers 3-4 times that should be enough. (sorry but it's the best I can do as I didn't plan this recipe post it just happened)

Step 4. Take 1 of your pie crusts, roll it out, and lay it into a 9" pie plate (the crust should overlap the pan so you can crimp it)

INTERMISSION

Step 5. I don't like "wet crust" so if you're anything like me you will poke some holes into that crust with a fork and crimp the edges a bit and bake on 350 until it's light golden brown

WE CONTINUE WITH THIS RECIPE

Step 6. Let the crust cool once you take it out of the oven for a good 15minutes
Step 7. Pour the apple mixtures into the pie dish
Step 8. I did a lattice top on this pie because I think it's pretty
Step 9. Bake at 350 for 20-25 minutes then remove from the oven and add mini marshmallows anywhere you can fit them in the lattice holes and put back into the oven for 10 minutes
Step 10. Once the pie has cooled drizzle some chocolate syrup on top

ENJOY!!!!!

It's Beginning to look a lot like Christmas!!!

Happy Tuesday

Happy Holidays

Christmas is my all time favorite holiday! I love everything it stands for. And let me tell you WHY!

I grew up in a modest household with 4 kids running around and 2 parents trying to manage it all. Christmas was and still IS a very big deal in my childhood home. My parents made a way to surprise all of us on Christmas morning with some of the coolest toys and gifts ever! How they managed I have no idea. We weren't poor, but we damn sure weren't rich either. The smell of cookies baking, watching my mom wrap gifts into the wee hours of the morning, and watching my dad get all excited to break out his old school r&b Christmas albums to play for us. (Cue in The Temptations, The Jackson 5, Stevie Wonder and more!!!!)  It's always been my favorite holiday. If you ask my family some of them might say it's my favorite because I'm spoiled and I like gifts!!!!! Well as a child, YES this is why I loved it the gifts but now as a thirty something adult the traditions mean so much more to me than anything anyone could ever give me.

I'm a stickler for tradition! It means something to me to be able to celebrate the holidays the same way every year with a few minor tweaks here and there.

For instance, my family was never big on Christmas Eve. The most that happened was we (as a household) went to the basement where the tree was, sipped eggnog or cider while my folks and perhaps some of their siblings came over for a Christmas cocktail. We were rushed into bed no later than 10pm and were told NOT to come downstairs or else Santa Claus would pass over our house. We all stayed in our beds….not moving a beat as we heard the Christmas music getting louder from the basement. As I child I thought my parents were masking the sound of Santa's reindeers so we wouldn't come out of our rooms, now as an adult I can only hope that my parents were enjoying one another's company, laughing and smiling and getting excited to see our blended family of 4 open presents the next morning.

On Christmas morning, I would wake up the ENTIRE house no later than 7:00am. I was impatient I could not wait to open those gifts and play with my brothers and my sister. They all hated me for it lol.
But as I got older, my parents started making breakfast and that meant making ME WAIT!!!!!! No bueno guys….this was not cool.

But as we all got older my siblings left the house 1 by 1. Christmas morning just wasn't the same anymore. I missed them terribly. My brothers were married and had to split their holiday up and I realized that life is so short. Our youth doesn't last very long which is why tradition means so much more to me now.

How has Christmas changed for me since marriage?
Taking on the traditions of your spouse's family is VERY important. No one wants a spouse that isn't interested in how sentimental the traditions are. The first year was an adjustment. But it got easier with each year and I love what my husband's family does for Christmas. We celebrate Christmas Eve at my in law's house, we dance, sing, play games and then at 12:00 we exchange presents then everyone goes home to sleep and we reconvene with the majority of his family in this area for Christmas breakfast. Our first married Christmas we hosted the breakfast and it was such a great memory. CHAOTIC catering for 25 hungry men and women and I was absolutely exhausted by the end of that day but it's something I will remember forever. After breakfast we head to my parent's house for more gift exchanges, dinner and we play a game that lasts into the night. Then that's it Christmas is over!

 Just a plate of Christmas cookies homemade by yours truly

 Playing the game at my parents home

My grandmother and mother preparing the Christmas spread 

 Hubby and I at Christmas Breakfast with his family 

My sister and I modeling the stockings from our childhood that my mom still puts up

So I wish you all a Merry Christmas, I hope that you take pride in the traditions that you have with your loved ones. Life is so short, so we must cherish it and celebrate it often.

Our 2013 Christmas tree!!!! Honoring traditional red and green 

So good, just so incredibly good!

Hey Guys,

Happy FRIDAY!!!!

I've been a little MIA but it's not that bad, hope I wasn't missed or anything.

So earlier this week I was sick. I stayed home and had 2 packs of Ramen Noodle soup. But I didn't want that I wanted REAL SOUP

So I whipped this little batch up in my Le Creuset Dutch Oven (OBSESSED)

Claiming this as my go to soup for the Fall. Chicken, Sweet potatoes, onion, garlic, butter, olive oil, corn, toasted sesame oil, chili powder curry powder and cumin. Emulsified and stewed topped with slivered almonds for a texture variation. Take THAT $7.49 soup from Hale and Hearty

Savory Fall Stew

3 Chicken legs 
1 Sweet Potatoe (diced) 
3/4c diced carrots
1 Spanish Onion (diced)
4 Cloves of Garlic 
2 TBSP of Butter 
2 TBPS of Olive Oil (EVOO is perfectly ok) 
1 bag of frozen corn 
1 dash of Toasted Sesame Oil
Chili Powder
Cumin Powder
Curry Powder
2 Knorr Chicken Stock Gel


Step 1: Heat up a pot large enough to hold 5c of water

Step 2. Add your olive oil, onions, carrots, and sweet potatoes and cook for 5 min then add your garlic. Let this sautee for about 3 min (do not let the garlic burn or else your stock is ruined)

Step 3. Add 5c of water and your chicken stock gel. Put the lid on and give it time to melt into the pot.

Step 4. Add the chicken legs and corn and let this boil on LOW for 20-30 minutes

Tip: I refrained from seasoning it in the early stages because I really wanted the natural flavors of my ingredients to be the stars of this soup. If you want a heavy taste on the dry seasonings then by all means add them in the beginning but if you're like me and wanted just a hint of it wait until the next step

Step 5: If you have an Emulsifier (hand held blender) take the chicken legs out and blend your soup until it's the consistency you want. Normally I like a super chunky texture, but this time I wanted something smooth and creamy so I blended until it was just that. If you do not have a handheld blender just pour the soup into your counter top blender and do it that way. Same thing! 

Step 6: Add the chicken legs back into the soup, and season. I did not measure this part, I went by my eye sight b/c I could tell how much was too much or too little. Add the dash of Toasted Sesame Oil and let it cook on low for about 30 more minutes. The longer you cook, the better it tastes! 


I garnished mine with some slivered almonds just for texture and enjoyed every moment of this soup

There's No Better Place

If you know me, which through this blog I hope you get to know who I am a little bit more through each and every entry; you know that without a shadow of a doubt I absolutely LOVE NYC

It all started in high school. In my junior year we took a class trip to the MoMA (Metropolitan Museum of Art) my friends and I were so excited to get dressed up and hit the city (ugh but with classmates that we could 1/2 stand). Nonetheless, for me, it was the perfect fall day. We ate water dogs on the steps near the fountain and just enjoyed our time there. I made a mental note (and I probably told my BFF) that one day I was going to work here, live here, and be here every single day.

After I graduated college I thought for sure I would get a job making $50,000 in NYC and move here within the year. YEAH THAT DID NOT HAPPEN (Cue in reality) So I went through 2 post-grad jobs before I got my break in NYC. I worked at Bath & Body Works as an Assistant Store Manager for 2 years, and then I worked for Bare Necessities as a Customer Service Supervisor. I felt like this was not the plan, I was angry all I wanted was to be amongst the fashionable, chill, and busy streets of NYC. Finally I got a job in Soho and my love affair with this city officially began. It was a dream!!! I had amazing co-workers, a hella cool, stylish boss that literally taught me so much in just 6 months of working for her. (I really miss her) But anyway, 6 months later the dream was CRUSHED! I was laid off….I was devastated, why is my bliss being taken away from me? But this was my first lesson in the real world in that nothing lasts forever. My company was downsizing, restructuring whatever you want to call it. It was sad, so many of us were let go.

7 months later (after many trips back into the city meeting with headhunters) I was BACK IN ACTION!!!!!!! Landed a temporary job with a major major MAJOR retailer and I've been here ever since.

In between the years, I have celebrated countless birthdays in this city, took my very first out of state trip with my husband here, sent my parents to numerous Broadway shows and concerts and tasted some of the most amazing culinary treats of my LIFE!!!!!!

Some people are very anti-NYC because it's "dangerous", or there's too many people, but there's a certain calm that can really only be appreciated in the morning, when there aren't too many people on the street, or the line at Starbucks isn't quite as long….it's mesmerizing to just sit/stand and pay attention to your surroundings.

So…all the while I can complain about the many different facets of life, the one thing I cannot complain about is that I've made this happen for myself. I think of the day when I won't work in NYC anymore and I get really sad about it. There's just something about this city...

Author Q & A

1. Why do you blog?

I blog because it's a creative outlet for me to share with readers, and passers by my thoughts and opinions on things that I find interesting.

2. How old are you?

They say a lady should never tell but I'm a woman who's not afraid of the aging process I graciously turned 32 last week 10.9.81

3. Why don't you blog consistently, like daily?

I have a full time job guys. I don't have the luxury to sit in front of my computer to search for content to blog about. I would love to do this daily but I'm not interested in setting expectations super high that I cannot achieve. I try to blog at least 1x per week, more if I can. I'm also a wife, a friend, a sister etc so my time is dedicated to more things than my awesome blog.

4. What nationality are you?

Ahhhhh the age old question that I've been getting since I was able to speak. I am an American. I am an African-American of mixed descent woman. My roots are in NJ but my mother is from a very small town in Georgia and my father's parents are from a very small town in South Carolina. My paternal great-grandmother was Cherokee Indian. My maternal great-grandfather was a white man. I don't know if his family were Italian, German, Polish etc but the rumor I've heard is Irish. I embrace all of these differences about me. Curly hair, caramel skin, slim nose it is what it is. I love me!

5. What do you do full time?

I work for the corporate offices of a MAJOR retailer. You've probably been there a time or two

6. Why do you blog about so many different things? Why not stick to one targeted audience?

I'm a "Jack of All Trades"!!! I like to juggle, i'm knowledgable about several topics.

Makeup/Beauty - I am a freelance MUA. I do bridal makeup, special event makeup, my own makeup. I like making women feel beautiful and teaching them how to achieve certain looks.

Weddings - I've started out as an assistant coordinator with Jenny Orsini Events in 2007, now I am a Senior Event Consultant with J.O.E. My ultimate passion in life is to be surrounded by all things wedding related it's an obsession. I'm the friend that you call when you get engaged and all throughout your planning to ask those crazy questions no one else would know the answer to nor would they care about it! Weddings = LIFE

This me after I picked my wedding gown up from Kleinfeld's

Food - I absolutely LOVE food! Who doesn't? I used to sit in my mother's kitchen as a child and watch/help her prepare several meals for our family because it was fun to me! I enjoy entertaining, making decadent dishes for my family and friends. I'm blessed to have skilled hands in the kitchen and not need to follow recipes line for line. My family thinks I'm adventurous  (try getting a southern family to eat Pumpkin Pie on Thanksgiving instead of Mama Duke's Sweet Potato Pie and I might get slapped)

Made this during Hurricane Sandy 

Baked brie with berries YUM

Fashion - I'm plus sized so I'm interested in fashion for my body type. Period point blank

7. What does your blog name mean?

Adhari is my first name. Renee is my middle name. As a child (and even to this day) my family likes to call me Adhari Renee amongst other nicknames. I love my name I think it's unique. It means "princess" in Hebrew or Arabic i'm not 100% sure. But if you don't believe my name is Arabic check this out Adhari

Thanks for reading. If you have questions please comment down below!!!!

XoXo, Food and Great Lipstick

Mani"c" Monday

Happy Monday!

Mondays are usually drab, dull, boring, and people like me usually loathe them because there is so much to be done in the weekend I almost feel that Monday should be my re-coup day.

Last week I celebrated my 32nd birthday! Filled with so much love, energy and positivity it was a great way to bring my 32nd year in.

I adore manicured nails. I think it's so feminine and the classy thing to have your fingernails primped and primed looking fab! Personally even if I look a hot mess in the hair/face department having something pretty to look down at on my hands makes me feel like I'm not so much a hot mess after all.

In high school I was GUILTY of acrylic tips (Crystal if I had a little extra cash). It was the IN thing to do when I was between the ages of 15-23. Every two weeks I took my allowance and had some random colors with freakishly dramatic airbrushed designs (which came with the $25 set or $15 fill in). I specifically remember having pale yellow nails with white zebra stripes airbrushed. It was loud! Now looking back I wouldn't have my nails that long nor damage my nails with all of that acrylic (although it looked so pretty). It was a B to get my nails hammered at bi-weekly.

Then something changed! Manicures became the "in" thing, a heck of a lot cheaper too. Short nails are now on trend (don't know what "on trend" means..basically it's current, it's what fashion/beauty critics and advisors say WE (the consumer) should be doing)! And I LOVE IT !!!!

Fall manicures are my favorite. It's the time of year it's acceptable to be very daring in your lacquer choices. Currently I am wearing Zoya's Emerald Green which is called "Giovanna". I've been eyeing it for quite some time and being that none of the salons I frequent carry the Zoya collection I spent the $8 on this fab polish. It's definitely a polish that remind you of Christmas time. But the trend report for F13 states Emerald Green is on trend...so...I had to have it!

{{ it looks a bit teal here on my hand}}

{{ but here you can see the pigments better}}

But that's not REALLY what I want to show you today! This morning I had to do an exchange at Macy's and ended up at the Dolce Gabbana cosmetics counter at the HSQ 34th St. location. Can we all just say "ahhhhhhhh"!!!! The sales lady tried to get me on this $37 lipstick....no way was I doing that even with a store credit! So..what did I buy...a $24 nail lacquer called "Wild Green 178"

All I heard was "made in France", and saw how nice and perfectly thin/thick the consistency was and I fell head over heels with it. Additionally I had been looking for a GREAT Hunter Green color.

There she is! And I can't wait to take this fab "Giovanna" off and put "Wild Green 178"on!

What are your favorite nail polish brands?

What are your favorite Fall nail colors?

Let's chat about this!!!

XoXo

Have a Mani"c" Monday

My Fall Faves & Must Haves

Chilly mornings, dew on your windshield, big beautiful scarves in a multitude of colors and the return of baking. Yes my friends this is FALL! My absolute favorite season of the year. I've seen a lot of different bloggers/vloggers posting their monthly favorites. I have a LIST of them and just wanted to share. I'm always interested in random product reviews and people are always asking me for advice on Skin Care, Beauty, Home and Fashion products. So here we go!!!


Dasani Drops - Cherry Pom

I don't like drinking water like some people. It's a struggle for me to CHUG half of my weight in ounces of water every day! Yes before you start judging, I know it's the healthy way to be but that doesn't mean I have to enjoy it. So I use these drops in my water and it tastes like I'm having something sweet and indulgent. (ok indulgent might be a little bit exaggerated but you get the point)

 Garnier BB Cream 

I'm a freelance makeup artist. I've been doing this for over 6 years now. So when I see people out in the street the expectation they have is that I have a full face of makeup. Let me clear the air NOW! I do not wear makeup daily. My mother taught me at a very young age that if I wore makeup everyday I would become so dependent on it that I wouldn't be able to look myself in the mirror in the morning, or go out the house and feel ok. I don't EVER want to feel like I don't look presentable just because my face is not beat to perfection. I read a few reviews on various BB Creams. (BB stands for Beauty Balm) but I have tried several products from Garnier and loved them so I bought this and love it!!!! It gives me coverage to even out my skin tone, moisturizes and provides my skin with additional vitamins and nutrients it needs. And honey I'm 2yrs past 30 so it's VITAL I start paying attention to these things.

MAC Cosmetics - "Up the Amp"

Totally digging this color for the Fall. It's a great transitional color from very bright pinks (like Candy Yum Yum) to more of a muted pink/plum blend.

Moroccan Smooth Perfection Blow Out Cream - Organix

I straighten/blow out/doobie whatever you want to call it my curly tresses. I used to spend quite a bit of money per month at my handy local Dominican salon totaling over $200 per month after you include the tip, deep conditioners, trims etc. While that's not a lot of money when your hair looks amazing it's never a 2hr thing. I could be in the salon for half a day and that doesn't appeal to my lifestyle anymore. So I trained myself and my hair on how to be blown out at home. This cream is awesome, it smooths out the frizz, gives my hair a great smell, it's lightweight and provides enough shine so my hair doesn't look brittle but doesn't make it greasy (I HATE GREASY BLOWN OUT HAIR). One day i'll do a tutorial on how I blow my hair out. 

Zoya Fall 2013 Cashmere Collection - Hunter

This color is AMAZING!!!!! The whole collection is beautiful but I am obsessed with this color. The pigment of the laquer is true (meaning it picks up exactly the color you want & the color pigments are strong and not weak). I haven't used this one yet because I need to let my nails grow out a little bit more so I can really show off a super cute mani in this color. I tend to steer to the dark side when it comes to my nails in the Fall. (Hello fans of "Linkin Park After Dark") My husband hates it, but he knows i'm manic about my manicures!!!! So sorry babe no french tips, or "Ballet Slippers" on my hands in the fall. 

Wet & Wild Mega Lengths Mascara

I know....i'm not 15 I shouldn't be purchasing mascara for $1.99 but if Fergie can come out with a line for Wet & Wild who am I to not try some products out. I bought this on a whim, I had left my makeup case at home and felt like I needed a pick me up in the eye area. It elongates my lashes and I love the brush. Nothing more nothing less! 

Jessie Ware 

I love her vibe! She reminds me of Sade, Lauren Hill, & Billie Holiday all in ONE!!!! She's from the UK and you would not expect her sound to be so soulful. I've been listening to "If you're never gonna move" on repeat since the song aired on last week's episode of Basketball Wives

PSL - Starbucks

PSL means Pumpkin Spice Latte! Some people HATE pumpkin....I LOVE pumpkin. PSL's are my absolute favorite fall coffee drink. It even prompted me to start researching how to make a pumpkin pie my southern family would actually like. We like Sweet Potato Pie vs. Pumpkin. Anyway, this drink is dreamy, creamy, spicy, and warm. I can't express how much I adore PSL's! Did I ever tell you being a Barista at SBUX is on my bucket list??? Well, it is!!! 

Well folks, that's it for my Fall faves! I have so much more but that would just be a vlog and not a blog.

Have a Happy Hump Day!!!!!

Stay Happy
Stay Healthy
Stay Hungry

Monday Night Dinner

My typical morning starts off like this
alarm clock - out the bed - shower - get dressed - make my husband his coffee and then take something from the freezer to defrost for dinner.

I don't really think about it either, it's just 2nd nature for me to do this. So yesterday I took out 1 package of butterfly pork chops (2 in the pack). While at work I contemplated the many different things I could do to prepare these chops. You see...I'm different when it comes to cooking. I am not going to say I don't cook things that are very simple because at times I do; however most of the time I just like to turn it up 1/2 a notch to make it something delicious and different. Variety is the spice of life right?

At some point during the day I decided I would make these chops into kebabs. Knowing how much my husband loves kebabs (he literally won't leave NYC until we've stopped for a BBQ Kebab at one of those street meat stands).



So home I went to prepare the meal.

To be quite honest it was simple and took me about 30minutes to make this whole meal. The one thing that I did was as soon as I got home, I washed the chops cut them into cubes that were thick enough to be held on a skewer, added some salt and 2 tablespoons of Dannon Cucumber Dill Greek Yogurt Dip Covered the marinating bowl with plastic wrap and let it sit while I cleaned the morning dishes and prepared my kitchen to go to work.

So enough of my rambling I'm sure those of you who asked are only here for the recipe =)

Marinated Pork Kebabs, Brown Basmati Rice Blend and Steamed Green Beans

1 pack of butterfly pork chops
2 Tbsp Dannon Cucumber Dill Greek Yogurt Dip
1 tbsp of salt
1 pack of Uncle Ben's Brown Basmati Rice (90 seconds in the microwave)
1/2 can of Sylvia's Collard Greens (low sodium)
1/4 tspb Williams-Sonoma Curry Vindaloo
1/4 cup of bean sprouts (you can find this in the produce section near the really good salad dressing)
2 cups of frozen (or fresh) green beans
1  Knorr Garlic (Ajo) Cube
1 tbsp of Smart Balance

Step 1. After you've marinated your chops, add 5-6 pieces of pork onto each skewer and keep the meat packed closely together. I find this helps the cooking process

Step 2. Add 2 cups of green beans to 1/2 cup of boiling water and add the garlic cube and 1 tbsp of the Smart Balance. Turn it on low and let simmer until done.

Step 3. Add a small dash of Extra Virgin Olive Oil into a saucepan and let it heat followed by your collard greens, bean sprouts and the curry vindaloo. Let this simmer until all of the flavors have really absorbed throughout the pan.

Step 4. Put your Uncle Bens basmati rice in the microwave for 90 seconds. Take it out and add it to the saucepan with your collards and bean sprouts and sprinkle salt to taste. Make sure you gently stir the ingredients together

Step 5. Add some evoo into a grill top pan and let it get HOT! Add your skewers of pork and allow each side to cook until it's golden brown with some "burned" sections. (est 5 min per side) {{TIP: Mine got a little stuck to the pan so make sure you add enough oil that it's not fried, but enough so this doesn't happen. Because it's been marinating in a yogurt sauce it can burn slightly but if you give each side the proper time you won't have this issue}}

Thats it! How simple was that? Seriously it takes just as much time to order a pizza and have it delivered. Although I LOVE LOVE LOVE pizza (it's a food group to me) I can't eat this type of stuff all the time for dinner. Hello lbs ;)


Enjoy Everyone

Time Keeps Ticking & I Keep on Cooking!!

Happy Thursday!!!!!! Personally I am READY for tonight because one of my favorite shows returns on We TV (Tamar and Vince) I'm definitely a semi-Tamartian and I cannot wait to see what's going to happen this season.

Ok here we go so last week in NJ it was cold, rainy, gloomy. Truth be told, I LOVE that kind of weather. I feel like when it's so nice outside i'm inclined to have to exit the house and go do something. That's all fine and well BUT let's just keep it real I am a VERY busy young woman and when I have the chance to do what is pleasing to me I do it. Don't get me wrong, I love to spend quality time with my family & friends but sometimes all I want is a blanket, some snacks, a beautiful smelling candle and my remote control. I don't pick up the phone, nor do I respond to text messages...WHY...because this is MY TIME to be 100% involved with no one else but Adhari.

I wanted dinner to be harvest like and comforting without all the additional calories. I'm finding new recipes to appease my cravings for good ole comfort food like my mother's mac and cheese (SWEET JESUS IT'S SO GOOD) so I made this gorgeous plate

Cast Iron Baked Chicken over diced White & Sweet Potatoes, Dried Blueberries and Onions
Green Beans 

1 Whole Oven Roaster
1 Onion (Vidalia is my preference)
2-3 White Potatoes
1 Large Sweet Potato
1/2 c Ocean Spray Dried Blueberries
1 bag of steam fresh green beans

Step 1: Thaw out your chicken and make sure you clean it really well. I normally use white vinegar to wash it off.

Step 2: With a sharp serrated knife split your chicken in half (you will need to break the backbone)

Step 3: Season the chicken with Salt, Pepper and Paprika (gives it a beautiful color)

Step 4: Dice your potatoes, onion and then mix in the blueberries (you can use cranberries too)

Step 5: Melt 1 tablespoon of Smart Balance or Olivio or Olive Oil in a large cast iron skillet and sauté the items in Step 4 until everything is coated with the binding fat

Step 6: Place the Chicken on top of your sautéed mixture (in the skillet) and put it in the oven. 375 degrees for 2 hours (check on it every 30min to make sure you're mixture is not sticking to the bottom of the skillet)

After 2 hours the chicken should look like the picture above. Crispy skin is what you're going for.
Steam some green beans or your favorite veggie and that's it.

*Tip* 
Let the chicken rest for about 15min once you take it out of the oven. Resting is a process a lot of chefs/home cooks use to allow the meat to restore it's natural juices so the meat is not dry. And there's nothing worse than your mouth salivating to devour a meal and then it's dry meat. BLEH

This is  GREAT meal to add to your Thanksgiving table as well. I like turkey but if I saw this I'd go straight for the chicken FIRST!

If you try this out please be sure to tell me about how you liked/disliked it. Be sure to LIKE my Facebook Fan Page as well.

Muah

Xo

Healthy Eating!

Happy Hump Day!!!!!

Today's blog post is all about food! If you follow me on Instagram (iamadhari) you can clearly see I love to post pictures of what I am eating/cooking etc. For about 1 month now i've been eating healthier than I ever have in my entire life. I'm not considering this to be a diet but a lifestyle change. I don't deprive myself when i'm feeling my inner fat girl come out who wants a slice of pizza and a beer. However I definitely make up for it the next day by doubling my water intake and sticking to my plan.

So last week I had this craving for some Cuban Black Beans. I'm not Cuban, i'm not even hispanic but this chick KILLED IT with those beans. I completely forgot my husband HATES beans and I ended up soaking the entire package which if you've ever made beans you know that equals about 6-7 servings.

Day #1 of eating my beans I had this 

Pork Chop marinated in Goya MOJO

Steamed Broccoli with Olivio

Sauteed zucchini squash with onions in Olivio

Quinoa made with chicken broth and alas my black beans on top

Here is the recipe:

Cuban Black Beans 

1 package of dried black beans

1 Spanish Onion (chopped)

1 Green Bell Pepper (chopped)

3-5 Cloves of Garlic (sorry guys i love this stuff)

Salt, Pepper, Adobo (to taste)

6 cups of water 

Step 1: Soak your beans overnight with about 1-2 inches of water sitting at the top

- Beans need to be cleaned and this helps to soften them up some 

- before you cook your beans the next day drain them and rinse

Step 2: In a 5.5-7oz quart dutch oven (or a large pot if you don't have one) sprinkle about 1.5tbsp of EVOO (extra virgin olive oil) in the pot on Medium heat and let it get HOT!!!!

Step 3: Add your chopped onions and bell peppers until they become translucent (6-8min)

Step 4: Add your minced garlic and keep an eye on it while stirring b/c garlic burns and you don't want burnt garlicy beans (BLEH)

Step 5: Add your beans and your 6c of water and turn on LOW (low and slow is always the way to go when cooking beans it makes them so much more creamy) 

Step 6: Stir every 30min to make sure the beans are not sticking to the bottom if you think you need more water GO FOR IT it's not going to kill the beans lol 

Step 7: Cook them for 1.5-2hrs. TASTE THEM if they're firm they need to cook longer but the consistency should be dense and creamy in texture 

Step 8. ENJOY them alone or over quinoa or white rice or in a burrito. There are so many ways to enjoy beans (mmmm even in an omelette with provolone and basil)

Tip: Since I made so much and I am the sole bean eater in my house I froze what I knew I wouldn't eat within a few days time. Take them out, let them thaw and enjoy all over again (with intensified flavor b/c they've been frozen in their own season)

The next day it was chilly and I wanted black bean soup. All I did was put some beans that were already made into a pot let them heat up and them used my Cuisinart Smart Stick blender which looks exactly like THIS (Actually this is the one I have). If you don't have one of these BUY ONE, but if that's not in the financial plan right now blend the soup until you see the consistency you like. I personally like my soup thick and creamy. This item is a GREAT investment if you enjoy soup, or even if you puree baby food it's perfect. I'm so glad I registered for one.

I used it until I had the desired consistency of a thick creamy soup, added some spinach and about 1/2c more of water and I came out with this! 

Sorry about the "residue" on the inner bowl, this is what happens when you walk from the kitchen to the living room to enjoy it. It might not look perfect nor garnished but it was super duper yummy! 

You can serve this with chopped avocado & crema (or sour cream) and broken tortilla chips but since I was opting for the healthier version I had it plain and it was still yummy! 

Thanks for reading. Try the recipe and leave your comments below on what you think about it

Getting Healthy & Twerking It Out

My last post had something to do with conception. If you're unfamiliar with that term it means "TTC" or trying to conceive.

Anyway....that train has long drifted away from me. And surprisingly I am not mad about it. I decided not to be so consumed with it anymore. I'm only going get ONE life and I want to live it to my fullest potential. Aside from my husband and my potential child(ten) Adhari has to learn how to focus on Adhari. With that said, I started a fitness journey a few weeks ago and thus far i've lost 9.3lbs.

I'm super proud of myself but this part of my post is quite boring (are you snoozing yet b/c I am)

My girlfriend emailed me about something called the VIXEN WORKOUT and at first I thought it was a pole dancing workout. NOPE. I don't think you could do these moves on a pole.

(My girl who lured me into the vixenarmy at our 1st class)

I've become so completely obsessed with it , I love the way I feel after the workout, I love the energy from the instructors and i'm meeting/coming in contact with some cool people as well.

The workout was originated in Miami, FL by Janet Jones who is a former Miami Heat Dancer. Like many women the daily grind of work and home life wasn't enough and she was missing her passion which was dancing. The Vixen Workout started with a few of her closest friends and has completely taken over the workout world in Florida and is now in NEW YORK CITY! (Thank You Jesus for that)

If you'd like to learn more about how she got started, what it's comprised of and how you can R.S.V.P. go to  www.vixenworkout.com

It's pretty much Zumba on STEROIDS to the 10th power. I've never sweat so much in my life!!!! What I love and adore about this class are the instructors and the ladies who attend are so carefree. We dance in front of mirrors and I don't know about them but I only pay attention to 4 people, the instructors and myself to make sure i'm moving my body properly to burn the maximum amount of calories and I look sexy doing it. (The instructors take being sexy to a NEW level)

I've lost about 3 inches total since taking the class on 7/25. It's amazing how I don't feel like i'm working out but I sweat like I'm addicted to the burn! When a class is SOLD OUT (which is often) it's like a sad kitten with no milk. I purrrrrrrrrrr in sadness!


Here are a few pics from my journey into the #vixenarmy

 Sweating & Loving it 

 Ran into 2 of my sorors there =)

 Instructor Josie and I after a crazy workout

 13yrs later met up with my old floormate from college

 I'm sweaty and I KNOW it 

Val & Maria came through too (we used to step in the same competitions representing our sororities as competitors now we're on the same team #vixenarmy)

So if you're reading this visit the site and go R.S.V.P. you will not regret it ladies!!!!!

Ciao

Where have I been?

Yup! I am a blogger loser. I started this blog, got all excited about it, then ____________ left it alone and never looked back. I became so consumed with my life, that I didn't want to share anything. I started doubting God, losing my faith, being unhappy with certain situations in life (non-marriage related before you even go there) and just gave up.

But...here I am ..... vulnerable and hoping that 1 person will read this.

I'm sorry to those who actually liked reading my posts. I am not guaranteeing how many times I want to post, but I can try to try to make a better effort.

#that'sall

2 months 8 days...it truly is a shame!

I am sorry. So sorry. I know I might not have a ton of followers but the ones that do read, I have neglected this blog. I've been so caught up in my life that I haven't taken time to sit down and just write. I have been reading blogs and envious that some of you have the dedication and time to sit and write on a daily basis. I need a large cup of your potion!

I also haven't been cooking very much lately. Sadly this was pointed out to me by my darling husband who I continued to ignore and acted like there was something wrong with his brain. {Ok i've cooked like 2 meals in the past 2 months....this is a problem for me}. Thank God I have a husband who can turn plan A into plan B and order takeout for 2 months.

I've also avoided the supermarket. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? I know and I don't know but it's not something I want to get into right now. The point is that cooking brings me joy and happiness and i've avoided it.

Well i'm back bitches!!!!!!! {no pun intended}

Last night I asked my husband the questions most wives ask "what do you want for dinner" his answer was "STEAK & ONIONS" so off to the store I went.
It was pretty simple. I marinated the steak in a store bought marinade {cannot remember the name I know it was McCormick}, sweated the onions just the way he likes them, and made my sides. Which included 
Crash Hot Potatoes & are so incredibly yumsters!




 Do yourselves a large favor and make those potatoes. They are seriously some of the best potatoes i've ever had in my life. During dinner my husband snaps his finger to get my attention {which i was clearly ignoring his macho-ness} until i looked at him and he had a mouth full of food, he pointed to his plate, smiled and then gave me the thumbs up, ate then fell asleep. If that's not a home run mean I don't know what is.

Anyways, thanks for being patient and waiting to hear something from me. I will not make a promise to blog daily, that's just unrealistic for my lifestyle but I do promise to blog at least 1-2 times per week. THAT is something I can commit to. Until next time.

Get your house in order

Ugh, I am bored!!!

I am holding myself back from the cliff on a daily basis of breaking down and just screaming "GIVE ME MORE". But do I really deserve more? The more I think about it, I do and I don't.

I grew up in a household devout to the word of God. Yes, we are a Christian based household. But not overly Christian and definitely not void of faith, religion, love and the word of God. So I have been taught on how to pray, why we go to church, why we serve Jesus Christ. These are things that have been instilled inside of me.

My husband's family is the same way in the most beautiful way possible. One of the things I loved most about him was that he came from a family of women and men who definitely knew what it was to love, serve and honor the Lord. That comforted me in knowing that his family has such morals, values and knew God. It made my husband a better "prospect" when I was thinking "can i marry this man"

But I am human, I am not perfect although some may think that I THINK i am perfect. For 2 years I went to church every Sunday, prayed faithfully, served God in a way I never served him before. This was when I was laid off from my previous job and was so confused as to WHY this was happening, and I needed direction from God. I went to church so much I got my 2 good friends involved so much to join the church as well.

I've fallen off. I haven't "given up" on God but I definitely haven't been giving him my all. Showing up for him not just on Sundays but everyday. I am so sad about this aspect in my life. When things seem to go wrong, I pray. But why am I not praying when everything is going right? Just saying "Praise the Lord" and "Thank you Jesus" is not enough. {for me anyways} There has to be more!!!

So do I deserve more when I am not giving more to Christ??? I have no idea only God can answer that question. I miss him in my life, I miss the feeling I receive when I leave church and have just been blessed by our Bishop in the word of God. I miss learning more about him and letting him invade my life in totality.

I have to change this and I have to do it NOW. We aren't living in the beginning we're definitely towards the end and as my mother's Reverend says every Sunday morning "get your house in order, because he's coming real soon"

Has anyone else lost their way?

March Birchbox!!!

Hey Gorgeous!!! {Yes I am talking to YOU}

I'm a product junkie! I blame it on my years of working at Bath & Body Works. Every fragrance, every candle, every sugar scrub face cream nail polish you name it ADHARI HAD IT.

I had so much that I would have "inventory" clear out sessions in my room. I'd invite my friends over and pretty much tell them to have at it with all of my beauty products I no longer wanted.

Birchbox definitely fuels this inner junkie symptom I have.



For $10 a month you get a box sent to you with 4-6 sample sized products. This week I received my box for March and wanted to share what was inside with you all.

Annick Goutal - perfume sample

Color Club - nail laquer in Age of Aquarius

Jouer - Luminizing moisture tint

One Love Organics - Skin Savior Waterless Beauty Balm

Orofluido - Beauty Elixir {hair treatment scented of vanilla and almonds}

Tea forte - antioxidant amplifier teas
Cucumber Mint
Cherry Marzipan
Honey Yuzu



I just received an email that my April box is already on it's way!!!! So excited to see what's inside that one!